EFT and Fright with kids

EFT and Fright with kids

This morning got off to a heady start. As I was charging off to school with my young children singing hadida songs at the top of our lungs, we were brought down to earth in a staggering and shocking way. I hit a man on a bike. Terrifying. No other way around it. He rolled over the top of my car, his bike underneath. It turned out he was unhurt except for shock and a graze on his arm and knee and he climbed back on his bike and rode off. I think the anger sustained him for his ride home. My children and I however were pretty shaken. Josh, only 5 was terrified I would be carted off by the police never to be seen again. Jaeda, 7, said” the fright is in my whole body Mummy. I decided that I’d bring in normality as quickly as I can so continued onto school and did BORROWING BENEFITS While driving, I had Jaeda tap on my hand and squeeze my fingers telling her that I needed her help. While she was tapping I had both of them repeating after me telling them it was for my help so that I could feel calmer and drive safely. Within 5 minutes they were both much calmer, as was I, able to talk about it more easily. Josh even reprimanded me for not concentrating and challenged me to take more responsibility. After dropping Josh off I was able to work with Jaeda and colour. It was fascinating how much she had remembered and absorbed after watching me do a session with her...
My Story

My Story

I never thought that I would have a problem falling pregnant.  When I was younger I was terrified of missing my period and was very conscious of trying very hard not to. When I was 26 I fell pregnant and it came as a big surprise. Having Emma and being a single mum was a loving, learning and trying time of my life. Then I met and married Linden when I was 40 and we wanted to have children together. 2 years of really ‘trying’ led us to explore some medical support and answers. First was the laparoscopy which proved that although I had a slight blockage in my left fallopian tube, there was no medical reason why I could not have a baby. So began the journey onto Clomid, Homeopathy, Chinese remedies, herbal remedies, acupuncture, Chiropractor treatments…. which led to IVF and then to donor egg IVF. After 4 years of intense fertility treatments and many doctors later, I finally fell pregnant on my 6th and last round of IVF with Jaeda. It was the most wonderful day of my life when Dr Dhansay called to say “you won’t believe this – it is positive!” I was with my Mum and Linden was away on the farm – miles away. Suddenly all we had been through was gone – the pain, the tears, the anguish, the longing. Jaeda was born by emergency caesarean (my plans for natural birth not working out even though the room next had a birthing pool and midwife waiting)- a healthy beautiful baby girl.  This earth mother had learnt many lessons, been humbled, reduced...
Alcohol and Fertility

Alcohol and Fertility

For years the old wives’ tale advice for falling pregnant was to have a glass of sherry and relax. Now research is showing that we really need to look at alternative, healthy and far more CONSCIOUS methods to increase our libido and fertility.