The intricacies of a Mother’s Journey – Post natal depression and healing

The intricacies of a Mother’s Journey – Post natal depression and healing

I would like to share this very moving story with you. It was so poignant how this beautiful woman found links from her past that seemed so totally unrelated and yet had created filters that clouded her ability to bond with her son. A client suffered from postnatal depression after the birth of her 3rd child. She often experienced a sense of overwhelm and of feeling unsupported. She came to see me when her children older and yet she still experienced a sense of guilt and disconnect when she thinks about that time. Working with Matrix Birth re-imprinting I asked her to find a time that she remembered feeling very alone and disconnected to her baby.She remembers a night where her baby would not sleep and she felt so alone and angry with him. We tapped on her frustration, aloneness and feeling unsupported. With her baby asleep, we reprogrammed the belief to feeling supported and loving her baby. This memory triggered a previous memory of shock when she was told she was having a baby boy. The echo felt trapped, angry and guilty.  We allowed her to vent these feelings without judgement and release her fears. She replaced her fear with– having a baby is sacred. Then she remembered an event which she says put a lot of things onto perspective – her first pregnancy was traumatic in the relationship with an emotionally abusive partner. He would not claim the child as his if it was not a boy. She remembered her fear of her baby being a boy and being linked to this man and the fear of if it...
MBR – My story

MBR – My story

Matrix Birth Reimprinting is one of the most beautiful and powerful healing techniques I have had the privilege of working with. Here is a session that I did with a colleague around the birth of my daughter Jaeda. We established that Jeanne was in labour.  Tuning in to how she was feeling – she felt devastated as she had just been told that labour was not progressing, that there were some complications and she would have to have a Caesar. We spent some time working with her in this space and supporting her to release the fear, shock, disappointment. We also spent some time working with Linden as he was experiencing a lot of shock and sadness and feeling helpless in the face of his wife’s emotions and his own worry about his baby. What came up was that she couldn’t have what she wanted. When we asked when was the first time she had experienced this she replied 3 years old.  We went down the timeline and found the 3 year old Jeanne.  She was feeling really angry and helpless and upset about something – really not sure what it was and couldn’t get and answer.  So we worked with her feelings around it and supported her to feel better and let this go. When we introduced colour into the session we asked her what colour would support her to feeling better and more empowered , she wanted to roll around in a rainbow.  What a joy she experienced.  And was there anything she wanted that would help her feel that she could get what she wanted and...